Rihanna is tired of being Single and is ready to Mingle? But Darling, Don’t Crumble!

When Rihanna sees a lot of people around in a relationship and a many of them in multiple relationships...she always wonders “ what’s wrong with me? ”, why don’t I have a boyfriend and a lot more.

This urge to move from single to a relationship is something that started driving her crazy. When she sees her besties holding hands or sharing cute kisses or celebrating each of those stupid days, she would wish the same for herself.

She had tried many dating sites in the past and many guys via mutual connections but nothing worked for her. The real question is, Is it worth all the fuss about being single with all the desolation of thoughts of being alone than to be in a relationship . Because a relationship is something that needs responsibility, care, share, commitment, love and loads of sex (most important). Because when you are considering a relationship it is either because you want a partner with whom you wanna cherish moments for the rest of the life or the hormones that are gushing out of you are seeking a partner.

At the end of the day Rihanna is fine with being single too and her freedom to be with different guys but what creates pressure is when she encounters her so-called besties always rabbit on about their relationship status that they are happily committed.

Many times the singles were once in a relationship, who couldn't get over the past or people, afraid to reach out to others whereas the committed people on the other hand, to cheat or maintain a toxic relationship with their partners. Again this status depends on the way you behave in the relationship.

So, there is no point of staying in the relationship, when you are not happy or feeling burdened, whether you are single or ready to mingle whatsoever, just be happy, free and give a deep thought of what you are getting into rather than regretting later.

If you are single and unhappy about it, here are 5 things that will cheer you up:

1. There are still good looking hot guys out there - Again, don’t buy into the myths that “all the good ones are taken.” After all! You’re not taken, right? There are plenty of good eligible singles out there for you to match up with.

2. Uncertainty breeds opportunity – Stop thinking, Will I be alone forever? Where should I go to meet people? Uncertainty brings a ton of opportunity. Your options are endless!! And that’s a good thing!

3. Love yourself the way you want to be loved by your hero - If you have been nasty to your partners in past relationships, re-think that! If you’re being nasty to yourself, stop doing that! Love yourself! Treat yourself with and respect. If you want a quality relationship with a person who will treat you well, you need to start doing it yourself.

4. Be patient - Perfection takes time! Rome wasn’t built in a day. Wait it out for that perfect match or at least close to perfect! Don’t just settle for whatever comes your way.

5. Focus on what you have, not what you don’t. - This is most important rule of the Law of Attraction. When you focus on the negativity of being single, you are only putting negative vibrations out there to everyone. They will pick up on it. Focus on your great job, wonderful friends, your health, your car, food on your table. When you focus on the good things, your vibration will change to being positive. Hot guys around will pick up on it and want to be around you even more than they already do.

So get going and don’t just be with someone because you don’t want to be alone. You need to have the mindset that anyone who doesn’t want you is a fool, and so you wouldn’t want them anyway.

Cheers!

NSK

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